Playing Catch Up
Wow, it's been a while since I've posted here. Disappearing from social media has been a recurring theme for me. I resurfaced on twitter last year, but I could never really bring myself to revive the blog. A lot has happened three years. I lost my agent, left my fellowship to begin my career as a freelance stage manager, started querying again, and pretty much fell into a crazypit of stress.
For as long as I could remember I wanted to be a writer, but theatre was always in my life. I wrote my first book in high school, queried, failed and went to college determined to revise and be published before I turned 20.
Boy was I ever wrong. College was hard. I shelved my first novel and my dream of becoming an actress. So when it came down to choose a career path, I thought about what was realistic for me and my skill set. Stage Management. It checked out, I was always worried about ever little detail of a production I performed in and got in everyone's business, so why not take the characteristic directors hated about me as an actress and make a career out of it as a stage manager?
As time passed, I found my footing once again and wrote my second book. I joined the writing community online and I felt like I had a place. Over the years I had support though the blog community. I thrived best with structure and blog hops, but when those went away, I struggled to find something to blog about. I felt I wasn't qualified to give advice, I tried the whole book reviewer/giveaway blogging and talking about myself felt repetitive. So my posts became less and less.
Then something big happened. I signed with a literary agent. I finally made it over one hurdle in my journey to get published. I was ecstatic at first, but when it was time to revise, my agent and I bumped heads. I don't want to get into a lot of details about this, but in the end, months after I turned in my revisions, I get an email from my agent saying she's leaving the business.
Yep. That really shook my confidence. I quietly disappeared from social media. I'm not going to lie when I say I liked saying I had an agent, but from my year and a half of being "agented" I honestly think I did not do it right. I never went on sub, I never really had a chance to build a good relationship. Hell, I still don't know if the revisions I made were even good. I ultimately made the decision to shelve that manuscript and move on to the next book. But it came at a price. I was tired. While all this was going down, was in the final months of my fellowship. I worked on almost 20 shows in some way, shape or form in two years. It was a major shift in my life when I left my company, so writing fell on the wayside.
As I tried to get in a better place mentally and financially, my creativity suffered.
Where am I now?
It wasn't until I entered Pitch Wars for the second time did I finally break out of my shell. The first time I entered, I didn't want to announce it to the world, it was the year I left my agent, and I still didn't tell anyone outside of my closest friends and family. Sure I took the "repped by" line out of my twitter bio, but I still felt ashamed that I was back to square one.The Summer of 2018, I decided to suck it up and shout out to the world I AM ENTERING PITCH WARS. lol. I didn't get in, but that's not the story. What I found during the pre-submission process was a great community. That was what I was missing, other writers who are in the exact same place as me.
Late 2018 Leslie was back and hungrier than ever to find a community online and in real life. I joined a group that meets up once of month of local kidlit authors in my area. It feels a little odd being one of the only unpublished regular attendees, but everyone is so supportive and it's nice to talk to people face to face about everything I've been through.
It took a long time for me to get my confidence back. I got a book to query, good friends to support me and a new outlook on my career as a writer. I heard a zillion times that every writer's journey is different. Even though sometimes I feel like I've gone nowhere, the truth is, I've actually accomplished a lot. I just need to keep reminding myself about it.
This was a long post, I'm not sure if I'll post regularly like I used to, maybe one day I'll find a balance.
Happy Reading!